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The 7 Hats of the
21st. Century Hypnotherapist.
A successful hypnotherapist today has much
responsibility. Due to the heightened
intelligence and awareness of the average person
in this age of information, your clients seems
to expect more out of hypnotherapy than in the
past. Knowledge can be powerful if understood
and used properly. It is important that you have
an in depth understanding of your field as well
as the workings of the mind of your client. You
must understand their fears and apprehensions
and have the knowledge of how to create
expectancy in them, eliminate their fears,
educate them in how to help themselves, motivate
them and give them the proper guidance and
instructions in hypnosis.
A hypnotherapist must be a:
Detective of forensics -
In any session with a client one of
the major purposes of a Hypnotherapist is to
identify what the dis-order is and to
investigate as much as possible as to what
caused it, how it affects your client, and what
can be done to rectify it.
It is as if you are a detective operating within his
mind attempting to find as many clues as
possible. Just as in actual detective work, keep
in mind that in many cases what you are seeing
on the surface is not what you are actually
looking for. It often takes some digging through
various techniques to uncover the true sources
of the dis-order.
Counselor -
Counseling is simply about problems and
solutions based on the information given from
your clients past and present situation. As a
counselor you’ll be able to notice many obvious
solutions that can be taken to help your client
along their way. It is important to not cross
the line however into therapy unless you are a
licensed therapist of some sort. You must keep
within your realm of practice.
Reference point -
You are the source of knowledge. Your client,
being in the middle of the actual situation is
usually the last one that can see what is going
on. To put it simply, you are outside of the
fire looking in. As an observer many times the
solution is more obvious. Through experience,
ongoing study and practice you will be able to
use your knowledge as a source of reference to
help your clients to progress.
Motivator -
Human beings are creatures of habit. The
nature of the conscious mind is one that resist
change and inconvenience. Even though your
clients will tell you they want to change and
you realize that change requires doing something
different. They do not want to be
inconvenienced. In most cases they will not
follow the instructions or suggestions given to
them unless motivated by an outside source. You
are that outside source.
Reckoning tool -
Once your client is motivated and working
through this process of change it is important
to have some kind of reporting process to assess
the results of change made. When a task is
given, there is always a higher rate of success
when the client realizes they will have to
report to someone on their progress in a certain
time period. Without a reporting, or reckoning
to an outside source (which is you), there seems
to be a lack of motivation to complete or finish
a task.
Hypnotherapist - As
a hypnotherapist you have a unique ability to be
able to bypass the conscious or rebellious mind
that resists change and to be able to place
those same suggestions of change in the
subconscious mind where major changes are made.
This is a very strong tool to aid your client in
accomplishing their goals.
Life coach - Life
coaching tends to be future oriented, goal
focused and encourages accountability. With the
assistance of coaching, your clients will be
able to attain their goals much quicker and
easier. It is similar to being a personal
trainer for bodybuilders. You are there as a
guide and to render assistance as needed.
3 Reasons Why
Traditional Hypnotherapy is Lacking.
Reason #1. Single
hypnosis sessions have extremely low success
ratios and the gap between multiple sessions is
too long.
Single Sessions
It is amazing that anyone is still even conducting
single hypnotherapy sessions with all the
information that we have at hand today.
In addition to conducting single session hypnosis,
especially in the area of smoking cessation,
there are many organizations who go one step
further and even guarantee their single session
will produce anywhere from 90 to 100% success.
Where do these statistics for success ratios coming
from?
You will find that any statistics of this magnitude for
individual sessions are either…
1. Over
inflated.
2.
Unsubstantiated.
3.
Nonexistent or
4. Slanted
towards making the sale only.
Let’s face it most people that use hypnosis to quit
smoking in my experience have been smoking
anywhere is from 20 to 35 years already. They
have tried every other “physical” or conscious
means to quit smoking before hand such as
patches, gums, lasers and whatever else there is
out there. In most cases, only after they have
exhausted all other physical means will they
then attempt hypnosis. Maybe because of the
fear, stigma or mystery associated with it. So
to think that someone who has failed in all
other areas and who has an embedded habit of 25
to 35 years would be able to eliminate smoking
in a one-hour session, you would have to be
pretty naïve. Some can do it but they are a rare
breed. A smoking habit that lasted that long has
become an ingrained habit, part of your
self-image. In order for them to become
non-smokers, a new habit of being a non-smoker
will have to be developed to replace the old
one.
Through positive self talk, affirmations and even
hypnotherapy will be rejected by 83% of the
public within three to seven days.
That means that only 17% of the public would be
successful after just one session. However those
17% of the public are the ones that can do
anything easily after just one suggestion, so
they would have quite even before deciding to
attend a hypnosis session. Therefore most
everyone attending a hypnotherapy session would
be in the other 83%.
That being the case, how can anyone offer a guarantee
or a high success rate after just one session?
I must admit that in my early days of hypnotherapy, for
several years I conducted most of my sessions as
single sessions or occasionally repeated
sessions, one week apart. However even back then
I had realized that many of my clients,
especially the ones who attended to quit smoking
were calling within that three to seven day
time-frame following their session stating that
they had done great initially but now were
either having a difficult time or had started
smoking again. Even with my weekly clients, they
would tell me that they did great at the
beginning of the week but in the last couple
days before returning to their follow-up
sessions had great difficulty. Many of them had
started smoking again a day or two before coming
to see me.
Now we can see why this happens as all of the data
becomes clear. 83% of the public will fight any
positive suggestions and go back to their
original way of thinking within three to seven
days of receiving the suggestions.
Reason #2.
Suggestions alone are not effective - The mind
operates according to pictures and emotions - At
the core of everything is thought. Our thoughts
are initially displayed through these pictures
and emotions.
Students find this especially true in school when they
are trying to read something and retain it. They
can read something over and over without
retaining the information. However when they
read something and imagine it happening as they
read it, it begins to stay with them. If they
can imagine it with feeling or emotion, it will
remain with them much longer. If you’ve ever
read a Fairytale you will notice this as you are
reading the story you are able to picture what
is going on and even feel the events of the
story.
Words alone are just garbled information waiting to be
acted upon. without visualization or emotion,
they are useless. That is also why positive self
talk alone is not effective.
Reason #3. It
does not address the core issues. Self image -
Extensive studies have been conducted through
New York City hospitals that at the core of
every issue is self-image. Self-image is the way
that you identify yourself and is derived from
the many thoughts, memories and experiences from
your past throughout your life.
The important thing to realize is that you can never
exceed your self-image for very long. You will
ultimately always “snap back” to who you
perceive yourself to be. For example and
unsuccessful, self sabotaging individual can be
given millions of dollars however within a
relatively short time will lose all of his or
her money through various events and return to
who he or she truly is which is the
unsuccessful, self sabotaging person. You can
see this on a daily basis looking on television
or the tabloids pertaining to the overnight
success stories of may actors or actresses who
with all their riches and success, who seem
outwardly to “have it all”, shortly lose it all
or are on drugs, alcoholics, in prison or have
committed suicide.
I’m sure you have seen these other examples many times
… You decide to become healthier as a New Year’s
resolution by purchasing a gym membership. You
attend the gym anywhere from three days to a
week and soon realize how inconvenient the whole
process is and decide to quit.
Or you decide to begin a diet to lose weight by eating
only certain foods and following certain
instructions. You follow what religiously for a
couple days, then you begin to cut corners here
and there and before you know it have gone back
to your original way of eating, and even worse.
We call this routine the yo-yo syndrome.
You can see this same process over and over in many
areas of improvement whether it be health
related, procrastination, success motivation,
public speaking, improving relationships, work
ethics or eliminating bad habits.
You must change your self-image in order to create
permanent change. There are no shortcuts.
3 Steps Process
to Permanent Success in Hypnotherapy
Here are the three
major categories broken down that are required
to obtaining permanent change.
1. Knowledge -
Knowledge is the first of the three steps that
must be obtained in order for a change to be
achieved. Not only must your clients be
knowledgeable about the process that they will
be going through, it is also important for the
hypnotherapist to be knowledgeable of what he or
she will be conducting.
I have found through my years of teaching doctors,
psychiatrists, psychologists as well as numerous
lay people to be hypnotherapist that the
majority of them have no clue what hypnosis
really is when they first arrive to training. If
these professionals are not aware of what
hypnosis really is, then how could we expect our
clients to realize it. They must be informed as
well as the hypnotherapist.
For the client - Most clients when they first arrive to
the Hypnotherapists office are scared. Due to
what they may have heard from friends or the
media they often times have a distorted image of
what is going to take place. Many expect that
immediately upon entering the office they will
be met by a sinister looking hypnotherapist
staring at them with mesmerizing spiraling
eyeballs that has this unnatural control over
them. Others expect that they will be made to
act like chickens or other barnyard animals
against their will and yet still others are
afraid that the hypnotherapist will uncover some
deep dark hidden secrets about their past. These
misconceptions are very important to eliminate
before expecting the client to relax and be open
to hypnosis.
Upon setting their mind at ease you must explain to the
client what hypnosis is and how it works. You
must work with them to find out more about them
and their situation and then only once prepared
and having informed them are you ready to begin
the session.
For the hypnotherapist - There are many misconceptions
as to what hypnosis is ranging from an altered
state of consciousness and mind control, to
blind obedience and trances.
You must be properly educated in exactly what hypnosis
is and how to use it. Learning clinical
hypnotherapy only covers half of the spectrum of
hypnosis. It is important to also learn the many
metaphysical aspects.
Metaphysics is defined as a branch of philosophy
dealing with the ultimate nature of reality.
That covers the entire subconscious mind and
then some doesn’t it! Therefore the majority of
hypnotherapy would come under the category of
metaphysics as it is something that can’t be
seen or described clinically. The more you can
understand what is going on within the
subconscious mind the more effectively you can
use it to affect positive changes.
Areas that must be completely delved into are the areas
of…
What is a disorder?
Where do they come from? … and most importantly
How to deal with them?
What is the application of faith in hypnosis? …
and
How faith can easily be built so as to help your
client to achieve success. What is the
application of Brainwave States relating to
hypnosis?
By understanding the various brainwave states and how
to attain each through hypnosis you will have a
much better understanding of how to deal with
and exactly which level to take your clients to
for stress reduction, repressed memories, and
accelerated healing.
2. Action - Is the
next most important step to success.
While knowledge is important, knowledge alone is not enough.
Knowledge by itself is only a reserve of information.
Unless acted upon it is the same as books
sitting on a shelf, they are of no use unused.
Once given knowledge of what to do or how to
proceed to attain a goal, that knowledge must be
put into action. Your client must be
inconvenienced, shaken up, guided to do what he
has not done before.
Change or progress is inconvenient. It requires doing
something that you haven’t done before..
Otherwise, it wouldn’t be called “change”, it
would be “same”. In other words if you do the
exact same thing for the next six months as you
have for the last six months, six months from
today you will be at the same place you are now.
Change requires doing something else, being
inconvenienced or shaken up.
It’s funny how most clients will come to your office
expecting a miracle of hypnosis. They are
expecting you to make a major change in their
life for them without them having to be
inconvenienced whatsoever. They expect you to
“make” them change. So you can see where you
have your job well cut out for you.
Life coaching is a great addition to hypnotherapy where
you can challenge, motivate and guide your
client through actively changing this situation
by having them report their progress to you
through follow-up sessions or even telephone
calls if required.
3. Repetition - Is
vital to creating “permanent” change.
Knowledge requires action, and action requires
repetition to be successful
Just as your past repetition of actions and behaviors
have become your present habits which are your
self-image the same must be done in order to
change your self-image. You must create new
habits. In order to create new habits you must
do so through creating new memories. The
subconscious mind does not understand the
difference between imagined and real memories
therefore through using your imagination and
visualizing yourself as the person you wish to
become, being sure to include as many emotions
as possible you are creating new memories.
Through repetition of these imagined memories for the
proper amount of days you are creating new
habits. This repetition process is literally
changing the neuro-pathways within your mind
creating engrams of your new habit. This new
habit will in turn replace the old habit.
That is your formula for permanent change.
In this field hypnotherapy there are constantly
new discoveries and techniques of how to attain
goals eliminate negative habits or disorders and
progress in virtually any area of life. It is
important that the Hypnotherapist keeps himself
aware of all these important changes so as to
know when to use the proper, most effective
ones.
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Best of success and keep well,
Rene A, Bastarache, CI, CHT
Director, The American School of Hypnosis |